HEY,
INFERTILITY
WARRIOR

Don't walk
this road alone.

Hello, Warrior

About you

I see you and understand your:

  • Deep-rooted need to build your family yesterday and your struggle to do so.
  • Worried heart, as you watch friends and family get pregnant easily over and over. Will it ever happen for you?
  • Overwhelm by the prospect of finding a fertility clinic, starting treatments, or moving to the next stage in your journey.
  • Challenge to navigate this new world you have been unwillingly thrust into, filled with hundreds of decisions that you can barely understand.
  • Obsession with Dr. Google and inability to focus on anything — not your job, your friends, not even your partner — other than infertility.
  • Dilemma because you want to trust your care team, but you can’t ignore that feeling in the pit of your stomach that they’re missing something. If only you could speak up with the doctor the way you do on those infertility chat rooms.
  • Despair as you barely recognize the exhausted woman staring back at you in the mirror. Will infertility always be your identity now?

I'm going to let you in on a secret… you can do hard things.

You can:
  • Improve your chances of success by making well-informed, scientifically-backed, and evidence-based decisions.
  • Focus on YOU and your partner, because you have another warrior in your corner who will carry the burden of obsessing over these decisions.
  • Exhale as you advocate for yourself with your doctors and know that YOUR needs are always put first.
  • Strengthen your care team by having another warrior alongside to make sure that you know all of your options and always receive the highest standards of care.
  • Become the confident, brave, resilient, and hopeful woman that you once were.
  • Start living your life again — liberated, knowing that infertility does not define you.
  • Beat infertility.
You’re already a mom. You became one the second you embarked on this journey.

Now let's make you a parent.

My Coaching Methodology

BECOME A PARENT. FASTER.

Your road to becoming a parent has taken longer than expected. But your journey is not over.

Beating infertility is possible. Yes, even for you — by empowering you to take control of your care and treatment plan, rather than blindly trusting the decisions that are made for you.

Do you want to become a parent faster? Then you need to arm yourself with:

EDUCATION

WHY & HOW

EDUCATION

Fertility treatments meant that you had to become a nurse overnight, with zero training and no education. Get answers to questions you didn’t even know needed to be asked to help make scientifically-based, well-informed decisions about your next steps.

Includes but is not limited to:

  • Determining if your current clinic and/or doctor is best for your unique situation -- and suggesting alternatives if not
  • Virtually/remotely attending your consults and appointments as your advocate
  • Debriefing after all consults and appointments to ensure all information and options were understood
  • Brainstorming questions to ask during appointments
  • Suggesting additional questions to ask following appointments
  • Assessing current diagnoses, such as a thyroid condition, that may need further management
  • Reviewing current medications and supplements and suggesting any additions or changes to discuss with your doctor
  • Researching current literature to develop a complete list of your options at every step
  • Setting fertility-related goals, such as improving egg quality, and developing a plan to achieve those goals

HOPE

WHY & HOW

HOPE

Heather's coaching has taken me from being afraid not only that I couldn't achieve another pregnancy, but that if I did my body would not be able to safely carry it; to restoring my belief that both of those things are possible and will happen for me. She comes with such deep knowledge of the infertility journey, and she makes you feel understood and supported.

R. from Virginia

Wishing is the belief that your goal — building your family — will simply manifest into reality. Hope, on the other hand, is the belief that the future will be better than the present and you have the power to make it so. Together, I’ll help you build a hopeful mindset so you can seize your future, rather than have it dictated to you.

Includes but is not limited to:

  • Developing a unique approach that works for you, with the goal of opening your mind — over time — to the possibility that you will become a parent
  • Validating your thoughts and emotions while pointing out unhealthy or unproductive ones
  • Brainstorming action plans — and backup plans in the event of obstacles along your journey
  • Identifying opportunities to take action that you may have missed but might impact future outcomes

RESILIENCY

WHY & HOW

RESILIENCY

Working with Heather has facilitated breakthroughs in my cultivating a healthier mental space, as well as in brainstorming ideas to present to my doctor. Heather helped me realize that it's important to serve and participate in all of the other aspects of my life that make me who I am, which has made me feel lighter, stronger, and more able to continue in my treatment.

L. from Arizona

You cannot beat infertility if you let every bump derail you. Develop the ability to accept the challenges of your situation, process and recover from pain more effectively, eliminate resistance to prolonged suffering, and find healthy ways to adapt and move forward.

Includes but is not limited to:

  • Developing ways to face and tackle the challenges of your unique diagnosis and prognosis
  • Setting realistic goals and working toward them
  • Shifting your mindset from problems being insurmountable
  • Developing confidence in your ability to solve problems and trust your instincts
  • Identifying ways to live your life outside of infertility
  • Learning self-love, self-compassion, and self-forgiveness

ADVOCACY

WHY & HOW

SELF-ADVOCACY

I believe that working with Heather earlier could have cut a year or two off my journey. She backed up my intuition about what my last hurdle was, suggested a specific medication for it, and I am now 14 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby girl. While that won't be the outcome for everyone, Heather is the real deal -- none of this "just think positive" BS!

K. from Illinois

Your infertility journey will change the second you understand that YOU know your body best and YOU are your most powerful advocate. Self-advocacy is voicing what you need — not confrontation. Most infertility warriors are not natural self-advocates and thus need help developing this skill.

Includes but is not limited to:

  • Helping you realize you have a voice — and how to use it politely but effectively
  • Learning my five-step approach to self-advocacy
  • Identifying opportunities to speak up that you may have missed but might impact future outcomes
  • Brainstorming questions to ask your doctor following appointments — and in general throughout your journey
  • Drafting and editing emails and other written communication with doctors
  • Writing example scripts you can use for the specific situation while you're still learning to self-advocate

PARTNERSHIP

WHY & HOW

PARTNERSHIP

Her summative experience sets her apart from other infertility mentors. In working with Heather, you will have not only have a constant member of your infertility team who will provide emotional support and is in your corner through thick and thin, but who also helps you process information and empowers you to make changes that can improve outcomes.

S. from Michigan

You are not alone on this journey. But you need a fellow infertility warrior to support and guide you, pick up the pieces when your world is falling apart, and celebrate even your smallest wins.

Includes guidance and support in the following areas, based on personal experience and research:

  • All paths to parenthood — trying to conceive on your own, fertility treatments, donor gametes, adoption, gestational surrogacy, and living childfree
  • Interpersonal relationships
  • Workplace issues

WELLNESS

WHY & HOW

HEALTH & WELLNESS

Although it can be an uncomfortable topic for some, your overall health and lifestyle matters on this journey. Optimize it to be fertility-boosting rather than fertility-hindering.

Includes guidance, accountability, and meal plans for the following lifestyles:

  • Ketogenic and intermittent fasting
  • Paleo
  • Whole30
  • Mediterranean

Additionally, includes workout and stress management plans and accountability.

My Results

WOMEN I WORK WITH

No two infertility journeys are the same. You will know that working with me is the right next step on your journey if you are ready to:
Make scientifically-based, well-informed decisions about your next steps.
Build a hopeful mindset so you can seize your future, rather than have it dictated to you.⁠
Develop the ability to accept the challenges of your situation and find healthy ways to adapt.
Advocate for yourself with your doctors and know that YOUR needs are always put first.⁠
Feel relieved to have someone on their care team who has been in their shoes.
Start living your life again — liberated, knowing that infertility does not define you.⁠

Testimonials

WHAT MY CLIENTS SAY

Did You Know?

DEFINING HOPE

Hope is the belief that the future will be better than the present and you have the power to make it so.

Hope is hard work.

Hopeful people are realists. They realize there will be a lot of obstacles between Point A (trying to conceive) and Point B (child in their arms). But they come up with plans to overcome those obstacles. They are not shy about reaching out for support and help. They understand that sometimes changing course, even just a little bit, is necessary.

Wishing, on the other hand, is the belief that the goal — building your family — will manifest into reality without the hard work. This is a passive approach that undermines the willpower you have for that goal.

There are two types of people:

1. Those who let adversity define and consume them.
2. Those who initially get knocked down by adversity but stand right back up, ready to fight.

You are the latter.

You are the Type A who’s worked hard for everything she has. And in other areas of your life, you’re killin’ it like a boss. But you’re struggling to apply the ‘hard work equals success’ principle to your infertility journey. That’s exactly why I created this coaching program.

...grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.

Reinhold Niebuhr

Cost

OPTIONS

  • Monthly Memberships
  • One-Time Intensive

SILVER
MEMBER

minimum commitment
of 3 months

$ 247 / month
  • Weekly 15-minute or bi-weekly 30-minute one-on-one sessions with me, using a combination of my coaching methodology and your unique journey
  • In-depth research of the issues discussed during our sessions
  • No communication or support between sessions

  • Discounted additional one-on-one sessions
  • $50 credit for every monthly member and $25 credit for every one-time intensive referred

GOLD
MEMBER

minimum commitment
of 3 months

$ 497 / month
  • Weekly 30-minute one-on-one sessions with me, using a combination of my coaching methodology and your unique journey
  • In-depth research of the issues discussed during our sessions
  • No communication or support between sessions

  • Discounted additional one-on-one sessions
  • $50 credit for every monthly member and $25 credit for every one-time intensive referred

PLATINUM
MEMBER

minimum commitment
of 3 months

$ 497 / month
  • Weekly 15-minute or bi-weekly 30-minute one-on-one sessions with me, using a combination of my coaching methodology and your unique journey
  • Unlimited text messaging support between sessions

  • Weekly office hours

  • In-depth research of the issues discussed during our sessions
  • Between session resources and ‘homework,’ such as personality assessments and goal tracking
  • Done-for-you ketogenic, paleo, and Whole30 meal planning for enhanced fertility
  • Discounted additional one-on-one sessions
  • $50 credit for every monthly member and $25 credit for every one-time intensive referred
Popular

JOURNEY
DEEP-DIVE

2-hour
session

$ 497 one-time
  • Thorough review and analysis of your medical history, infertility journey, and current diet and lifestyle
  • Identify any missed diagnoses, potentially helpful supplements, and additional testing
  • Provide feedback on past treatment cycles and make suggestions for future attempts
  • Evaluate current doctor and clinic and research alternatives, if necessary
  • Develop a detailed action plan and recommended next steps
  • And more as needed for your unique situation
  • No communication or support after the session

The first step to beat infertility is to stop letting infertility define you and schedule a quick 30-minute ZERO OBLIGATION call to see if we’re a good fit.

And believe me, I will tell you if we’re not — just like I will tell you if I think that your current treatment plan is not going to work. (Yes, I’ve actually had to do that.)

Are you ready to beat infertility?

Hello, Partner

ABOUT YOU

Yes, I’m talking to you now. I want you to know that I see you, too. And I get why you’re feeling:
  • Sad, because you have a deep desire to become a parent, too.
  • Helpless. It is excruciating to watch your partner lose herself to infertility and feel like there is nothing you can do about it.
  • Impatient for answers, since you’ve both been putting off living your life. Remember that vacation you never took in case you were in the middle of a treatment cycle?
  • Skeptical. If you can’t trust the doctors to make the best decisions for you, then who can you trust?

More than anything, you feel drained — financially and emotionally.

Your relationship is under so much stress; the last thing you’re ready to do is spend more money on something else that isn’t going to help. You can’t bear for your partner to be full of false-hope.

And, between you and me, you’re not ready to admit ‘defeat’ — again — by seeking additional support outside of your fertility clinic.

Look, there is no magic wand — or believe me, I would give it to you.

I’m not here to become your partner’s best friend — although yes, I develop very close relationships with my clients because I want so badly for your journey to have a swift, happy ending.

I’m here to help you:

  • Shift the burden of figuring out infertility off of you and your partner, and onto me. Let me be the one to sift through all the medical records, doctor’s notes, and treatment plans. Let me help you ask the right questions during your appointments. I know the questions that the doctors don’t want you to ask. I dig into what most doctors don’t even take the time to read.
  • Find answers and make better-informed, evidence-based decisions. With me as your guide, you will know that you have been presented ALL your options and not just the ones that the for-profit businesses — ahem, the fertility clinic and insurance companies — want to show you.
  • Save money. What would one less IVF treatment cost? Let me tell you; it’s roughly $22,000. Now, I can’t guarantee that you won’t need it, but I can tell you that when my clients advocate for themselves, they inevitably see either time or financial savings on their path to parenthood.

Wouldn’t it be amazing to start living your lives again, knowing that you have a plan in place to beat infertility that doesn’t involve blindly trusting someone who has never been in your shoes before?

Simply Put

Beating infertility starts by asking for help.

Warriors, you can confidently ask for and receive the help you’ve been desperately searching for by becoming an advocate for yourself and making evidence-based decisions that lead to better outcomes.

You’ll live easier knowing that you can take your infertility, put it in a box, and hand it over to me. Between our phone sessions, I handle whatever is in that box so you can focus on living your life rather than allowing infertility to live it for you.